How can you remain confident the restoration of your marriage will last?
How can you remain confident that the restoration of your marriage will last?
One of the ladies in my mentorship program, Balanced Wife Life Academy, asked this question. She has experienced AMAZING results and finally enjoying the marriage of her dreams. But, now she is worried that things might go back to the way they were before.
There are 3 things you can do to protect your marriage and keep it from falling back into a rut.
1. Trust God.
The same God that healed and restored your marriage is the same God that will maintain it. Keep him at the forefront of every area of your marriage. You can’t do this by yourself. Don’t allow the enemy to make you worry about things that are out of your control. He is still a lier! God isn’t sitting in heaven trying to figure out how to take this blessing away from you. And he surely isn’t wanting you to forfeit the blessing. Trust God! Trust that he has given you the power to sustain what he has given you. And above all things remember, God’s Grace Is Sufficient! (2 Corinthians 12:9 and Philippians 1:6). Remain confident that God isn’t just going to walk away from you and your marriage now.
2. Be intentional about putting in the work.
Never allow your marriage to be on autopilot. This will always lead to divorce. Use the same energy you used to get each other. Make sure your spouse knows that you are all in. Don’t allow the busyness of life to create a wedge between you and your husband. Be consistent in blocking out time for each other.
3. Have regular check-ins.
Schedule time to sit down and check on each other on a regular basis. Be consistent so that things don’t pile up and weigh you down. Talk about your highs and lows for the week. Actively listen to your husband’s heart as he speaks. Share your concerns in a loving way
Implement these quick tips to continue experiencing breakthroughs in your marriage. Remain confident that God is still in control and able to do what you are unable to do on your own.
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